Now turn that around: “It’s Not Okay to Hate Donald Trump!”
The details differ but all your arguments against hatred apply just as well to the unending barrage of vilification directed at Trump. A man who has Jewish grand-children is “Anti-Semitic”? Israel never had a better friend.
Misogynist? His campaign leaders were all women; strong capable women too. They supported Trump for the greater good of America, even though they probably support the idea of a woman President. Clearly Clinton was a terrible candidate who was rejected by the American Middle Class whom she rejected as “Deplorables.”
It is not OK to hate Hillary Clinton, in spite of all the things she and Bill have done. It is not OK to hate Donald Trump either.