“ I hate even calling it feminism, because it’s not.” The anti-male, anti-marriage agenda is part of the feminist manifesto: “Because feminism is a doctrine, an ideology. It is firmly rooted in a strict set of core doctrines based on Marxist principles.” Marx wanted an end to marriage and the family, for women to go back to work ASAP after having a baby, while the children were to be raised by State childcare facilities. He regarded the family unit as a barrier to establishing a Socialist State. Liberated women would work for the State alongside the men in absolute equality, as slaves of the state. Children raised by the State independent of their parents would be loyal only to the State.
So yes, what you describe is feminism: Socialism for Women.